SHHH!!!

I have noticed some people do not know when to shut the hell up. One of the key ingredients to a good friend, lover, and even just a well-rounded human being is knowing when to be quiet. There is nothing worst than someone that feels they need to constantly berate others even if there is some truth to what you are saying. What makes you think that you constantly need to point out what you see as a flaw in someone? It goes back to "you did not get enough hugs as an child?"...lol. It is something inside of some people that makes them feel inferior and I believe pointing out someones flaws make them feel a little better about themselves. Its like saying to themselves " I am really not that bad, look at this person." Fact is you are still the same person with the same flaws at the end of the day.

Before you speak on anything here is the formula to know if you are a NEGATIVE person. Speaking on TRUTH (or what you think is true) is not enough. Majority Rules and you must hit 2/3 before you speak. The formula is 1.TRUTH 2. KIND 3.NECESSITY. Now if majority of the time you speaking truth with no kindness or no helpfulness.  You may want to look at yourself as you easily pick apart other peoples flaws.  I can bet people are tired of hearing you speak!