SHHH!!!

I have noticed some people do not know when to shut the hell up. One of the key ingredients to a good friend, lover, and even just a well-rounded human being is knowing when to be quiet. There is nothing worst than someone that feels they need to constantly berate others even if there is some truth to what you are saying. What makes you think that you constantly need to point out what you see as a flaw in someone? It goes back to "you did not get enough hugs as an child?"...lol. It is something inside of some people that makes them feel inferior and I believe pointing out someones flaws make them feel a little better about themselves. Its like saying to themselves " I am really not that bad, look at this person." Fact is you are still the same person with the same flaws at the end of the day.

Before you speak on anything here is the formula to know if you are a NEGATIVE person. Speaking on TRUTH (or what you think is true) is not enough. Majority Rules and you must hit 2/3 before you speak. The formula is 1.TRUTH 2. KIND 3.NECESSITY. Now if majority of the time you speaking truth with no kindness or no helpfulness.  You may want to look at yourself as you easily pick apart other peoples flaws.  I can bet people are tired of hearing you speak!

Stay True

I must admit sometimes I have found myself acting out of character to match someone's stupidity. We all know about being loyal to friends and family, but what about self?  When you allow another to change who you are because you refuse to let  them  disrespect, marginalize you in some sense you  are cheating on yourself...with yourself. Often we compromise our own integrity to get on another person's level that we recognize as petty, childish or just down right stupid. We know the shit is beneath us, but before we know it we are berating another person to let them know they will not treat us this way- we have matched them blow for blow. Then later we have the audacity to sit high on our throne and talk about how ignorant and petty another person is while cloaking ourselves as victims. No matter who started it if you are matching someone on their heinous deeds you are no better.  That is why I say no Grudges but let those people go...don't let anybody change you. Don't be a drag just be a queen. LOL

R.I.P. Nate Dog- West Coast Rap Legend

Nathaniel Hale aka  Nate Dog as reportedly passed  on March 15,2011, although no official report have been released.  Nate Dog has had allot of health issues over the last couple of years including suffering from 2 massive strokes (one in 2007 and the second in 2008). The second stroke actually left him paralyzed on his left side and he was in physical therapy trying to regain some normalcy.

While we are familiar with the hit :"Regulator", Nate Dog actually released 4 other albums also while collaborating on over 40 other hit records. Another great artist gone...R.I.P. Nate Dog

What time is it love? You are late!

People  often search for love and we  try to make Mr./Ms. Wrong into Mr./Ms Right.  Love is NOT on  a schedule, just because you're tired of being lonely that whoever you run across next is "the one". I have seen women treat men like an old car, but you  can't make a hooptie into a new model. When you say things like "he has potential", you are really saying he/she has the potential to be shaped into the person I want them to  be. It does not work! There is nothing you can do to change a person that is not ready to change. So, all of  that hard work you are putting into a car that did not suit your fancy because you just want to "ride" something (LMAO) in the end it's going to break down anyway.  Even if you fix it up its still the same damn car!

Love is like me, never on time but it comes at the right moment, In the meantime enjoy your life, family, friends and you may want to  get some rechargeable batteries and a massaging shower head. LOL

Welcome

Welcome.. This blog is really not about being a snob in the sense of looking down on others. Personally, I hear comments like you talk "White" or "who do you think you are". I have learned some people - actually lots of people cannot accept or intimidated by things they do not understand. That can be someone that practices a different religion, or has a different cultural background or even skin color. There is a stereotype that a Black person must talk, act, and think a certain way. Let's see politically we are all liberals, all Black men are well endowed(LMAO),  love chicken, can all dance, and  have a certain slang. Fact, not all Black men  are hung, I like chicken but I prefer baked, I am really clueless on allot of the slang...you get my drift. People are People damn it! No matter their color. I am not going to let anyone define my blackness or who I am. Someone sent me something about  a Black Snob and now that's my mantra:) Black, White, Mexican, Asian, Gay, Straight...I love all my Snobs!! Smooches xoxo